The Extraordinary Marriage

Connie Durham

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Episodes

EPS 30 Mighty Mom Mastery with Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany
1w ago
EPS 30 Mighty Mom Mastery with Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany
Embark on a heartfelt journey into the essence of 🌷 motherhood with Connie Durham and her delightful guests— Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany, three vibrant young moms sharing their experiences and wisdom. This episode of The Extraordinary Marriage is a tribute to the unconditional love, the laughter, the lessons, and the legacy that mothers bestow upon their children and the world. 🌷 Episode Chapters (00:00) Connie introduces the touching theme of motherhood and its celebration (03:24) Melissa shares the humorous side of parenting and the importance of positive reinforcement (07:15) Tiffany reflects on the power of forgiveness and leading by example, even in challenging times ( 12:40) Brittany emphasizes the hope and optimism that the gospel brings to family life (16:58) The panel discusses the virtues of humility and the courage to admit when we're wrong (21:45) Educating children on empathy, service, and problem-solving skills for a better future (27:10) A collective message on the impact of mothers and the importance of self-compassion Join us as we delve into the extraordinary role of mothers, from the tender moments of bringing a new life home to the profound influence they have on shaping future generations. Whether you're a mom yourself, have a special mom in your life, or simply appreciate the nurturing spirit of motherhood, this episode is a celebration of all things mom—just in time for 🌷 Mother's Day. For more insights on nurturing your relationship and embracing the joys of family life, don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast.  (On Apple, Spotify, Amazon) Connect with Connie and learn more about her work in empowering couples through communication secrets at www.theextraordinarymarriage.com . Learn the Secrets of Communicating with your Spouse through Private Coaching or invite a small group of friends to share a fun, enlightening workshop online or locally in person. Let's talk. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session    #Motherhood #FamilyLove #ParentingWisdom #TheExtraordinaryMarriage #Podcast #MothersDayCelebration --- Ready to dive deeper into the communication styles that can transform your marriage? Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com  and discover the tools to create a more connected and fulfilling partnership.
EPS 29 Debonair, Duty, & Dynamics with Jeff & Connie
May 2 2024
EPS 29 Debonair, Duty, & Dynamics with Jeff & Connie
Join Jeff & Connie as they share personal anecdotes and practical advice, drawing from their own 40-year journey of love and collaboration. Whether it's tackling the chores, managing finances, or supporting each other's roles, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for couples at any stage of their relationship. 🏡 Episode Chapters (00:00) A warm welcome back with insights on household responsibilities (02:15) How our parents' roles shape our approach to marriage (04:48) Jeff's childhood lessons on responsibility and teamwork (08:30) The pitfalls of not discussing responsibilities with your spouse (11:52) The consequences of assumptions and the power of communication (15:45) A humorous tale of unexpected lunch guests and marital learning curves (19:10) The importance of planning and talking through household tasks (22:57) How to achieve a fair work and family life balance (26:40) The challenges of busy schedules and the necessity of clear communication (30:25) The Couples Roadmap - a tool for planning and harmony in your marriage https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/roadmap For more insights and to connect with today's guests, visit www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com . Don't forget to subscribe & give us a rating on your favorite podcast host.. for your weekly dose of marriage enrichment and to share the love with other couples striving for an extraordinary partnership. #MarriageGoals #Teamwork #Communication #HouseholdManagement #TheExtraordinaryMarriage #PodcastLove #MaritalWisdom
Episode 27 What IS Communication in Marriage?
Apr 18 2024
Episode 27 What IS Communication in Marriage?
Ready for more effective communication with your spouse? Awareness is key! Welcome to a podcast that illuminates the intricate dance of communication within the sacred bond of marriage. Designed for those who have pledged their lives to one another, this podcast serves as a beacon for married couples seeking to foster a profound connection through the power of conversation. Understanding Communication Styles: We all communicate differently. Delve into the diverse ways in which we express ourselves—beyond words—and discover how to appreciate and adapt to your partner’s unique communication style. 🔹 Episode Highlights  (00:00) Unveiling the impact of differences on your relationship   (05:22) The four unexpected ways you're communicating with your spouse  (12:47) Three actionable tips to elevate your marital communication today   (18:34) The vital role of understanding in overcoming disconnects   (23:15) Connie's passion project: Communication Secrets for Marriage   (29:42) How a personal assessment can revolutionize your marriage   Self-Evaluation: On a scale from 1 to 10, where does your communication with your spouse fall? Engage in thoughtful self-reflection and self-assessment exercises that can inspire growth and improvement in your daily dialogues. Each episode is crafted with the aim of nurturing the roots of marital connection, fostering a richer understanding between partners, and cultivating an environment where both love and communication flourish. Whether you’re newlyweds or decades deep into your commitment, join us as we unlock the secrets to communicating more effectively, listening more deeply, and loving more completely. Subscribe to "The Extraordinary Podcast" and begin the journey to elevate the conversation within your marriage. Host - Connie Durham... Atlanta, GA Learn Communication Secrets in my OnDemand Class, Book me for small groups online and locally, or learn this method through private coaching to find specific solutions.   #family #marriage #theextraordinarymarriage #marriagematters #happyfamily www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
Episode 26 - Real, Resilient, & Rare Mom of 7
Apr 11 2024
Episode 26 - Real, Resilient, & Rare Mom of 7
Host - Connie Durham & Guest Tiffany Wicks We all dream of an extraordinary marriage; a union filled with love 💌, communication, and everlasting companionship. Yet, achieving this can often feel like a mystery. In our todays episode, we feature an incredible guest, Tiffany Wicks, whose life story resonates with strength and resilience. Like many of you, Tiffany has encountered real-life challenges stemming from her childhood and past experiences. Yet, it is her commitment to personal growth and determination to thrive as a wife and mother that truly sets her apart.  Through our engaging discussion, we explore the nuances of what makes a marriage not just work, but flourish. We shed light on the fundamental truths echoed in the concept that a great marriage begins with understanding how you're both different – in thoughts, temperaments, and responses. It's not always about changing each other, but about understanding and appreciating these differences, and using them to strengthen the bond you share.   Her podcast, To the Nines, echoes her philosophy of striving for excellence and empowering women to boldly pursue their goals without waiting for permission. 📋 Episode Chapters (00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters (01:27) Tiffany Wicks has a podcast called To the nines (07:57) Our energy all started with the creation of humans (08:39) M my mother was incredibly young when she got married (12:09) Tell me about your first year as a married couple (14:00) Tiffany says she and her husband are completely opposite in many ways (15:30) Tiffany says she wakes up every morning thinking about her husband (21:39) Tiffany says sometimes she feels attacked by her husband when asking questions (26:12) Tiffany, many women can't control their mouths or their emotions (30:47) Tiffany Wicks is a health and fitness coach and entrepreneur (34:01) Connie Durham shares marriage communication secrets on The Extraordinary Marriage podcast   For Show Notes and Tiffany's contact info, go to: www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com/PODCAST    #marriage #marriagematters #couples #happyfamily #lovestory #theextraordinarymarriage #podcast #real #nine #momlife *********** I have a FREE GIFT for you.... Learn more about your personality with... "The LoveXpertise" quiz... Then... get your spouse to take it too! This will create conversation! https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/lovexpertise-quiz
EPS 25 - How to Refill your LOVE Tank
Apr 4 2024
EPS 25 - How to Refill your LOVE Tank
Dive into the heart of a thriving partnership with Connie Durham in this week's episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, where we explore the critical balance of deposits and withdrawals in your love account. 🌹 💑 Connie, with her characteristic warmth and wisdom, invites us into an intimate conversation about the everyday actions that either enrich or deplete our marital bonds. From the art of forgiveness to the power of patience, she illuminates the small yet significant choices that can lead to a full 'bank account' of mutual love and respect.   📋 Episode Chapters (00:00) Being a team player affects every relationship that you have (06:15) The concept of deposits and withdrawals applies to every relationship you have (13:33) Whatever you're doing for your family or for your spouse is appreciated (15:28) Let's talk about deposits, because I like a full bank account (20:28) Can you see the importance of making deposits into your marriage (25:03) Connie Durham: Ten days to a happier marriage is just $18   💬 Leave your thoughts and experiences in the comments below - I would love to hear your take on maintaining a healthy, balanced love account in your relationship! Get 10 Days to Happier Marriage mini-course $18 https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/offers/fQ4LxbH6  ✅ Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insights on nurturing your relationship and living a life filled with love.   Connect with me: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheExtraordinaryMarriage/ Official Website: www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast #LoveAccount  #RelationshipGoals  #HealthyRelationships  #MarriageAdvice  #Podcast  #LoveAndLife  #theextraordinarymarriage
EPS 15 Purposeful Parenting No-Problem   Jaci Finneman
Jan 25 2024
EPS 15 Purposeful Parenting No-Problem Jaci Finneman
Feeling the stress of raising polite and well-behaved kids? Well, brace yourselves because your marriage might also be going through a rough patch! Prepare yourselves for some hilarious and eye-opening tips from Jaci & Connie as they spill the beans on how to have an extraordinary marriage while dealing with the challenges of parenting.  Don't miss out on this epic conversation! Jaci has one of my FAVORITE Gifts......Communicate better with your kids AND find many parts superb for husband or wife use also!!    60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool Find Links and Free Gifts in the Show notes @ www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com/podcast  Connie (The Extraordinary Marriage) Jaci (No-Problem Parenting)   Episode 15 Jaci Finneman, founder of Hello World, LLC, and No-Problem Parenting™, a parenting support company that serves parents and providers worldwide. Since its establishment in November 2013, Jaci has helped parents and providers become confident leaders through personalized parent coaching as well as consulting for providers and companies that employ parents. In 2019 Jaci branded No-Problem Parenting™ and launched the No Problem Parenting Podcast in 2021. She produced and published two No-Problem Parenting™ books between September 2022 and August 2023, ranking #1 Amazon New Release Best Seller and #1 International Best Seller, respectively. Jaci's goal is to reach one million parents by 2024 and help them replace guilt, fear, and frustration with confidence Before establishing Hello World, LLC, Jaci worked for 20 years as an in-home family counselor, mental health practitioner, and clinical team’s coordinator at a non-profit counseling agency.
EPS 13 Designing Your Extraordinary Marriage - Debbi Sluys
Jan 11 2024
EPS 13 Designing Your Extraordinary Marriage - Debbi Sluys
Today, Connie & Debbi are here to chat about something super important - starting with the end in mind! For LINKS and Free Gifts from Connie & Debbi - Go to the Show Notes @ www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com/podcast    Now, don't worry, we're not talking about the ultimate "THE END" here, but rather about creating awesome new visions for each phase of your life. Because let's face it, life is a crazy rollercoaster - with job changes, kids entering the picture, and all sorts of unexpected twists and turns. But here's the real question: do you and your partner have a clear idea of what you want and how to get there? Wouldn't it be amazing if you could both just kick back, enjoy each other's company, and conjure up a fantastic vision for your future together? Trust us, it's totally possible. So, buckle up, grab your spouse's hand, and let's dive into this wild ride of creating the life you've always dreamed of!   Debbi Sluys founder of Dare to Declare™ is a coach, trainer, and speaker who specializes in helping people expand their brain’s potential to see what is possible for their future with Vision boards. As a former Childcare Director, Debbi has studied personal development for over 30 years and has facilitated and witnessed science at work by guiding over a thousand clients to identify and declare their Vision both online and in-person in her Dare to Declare™ studio. As an adopted child and survivor of child abuse, her mission to support women to declare their truth is her life purpose. Debbi has been featured on many global podcasts, in The Corporate Escapist Magazine, shared an event with Gabrielle Bernstein and interviewed by Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul) for his Success TV. She lives in Chatham, Ontario, Canada.